She doesn't search for approval.
She knows she's already been approved
She doesn't search for approval.
She knows she's already been approved
Claim Your Leadership Potential
Discover Who You Are in Christ and Step into Your God-Given Impact
Transform Self-Doubt into Confidence, Discover Your Calling, and Lead with God's Guidance
Have you ever wondered if you were meant for more? That you have unique talents and a burning desire to step up and make a difference, guided by your faith? Yet, perhaps something deep within holds you back – the voice of self-doubt or not knowing where to begin. If these thoughts resonate with you, you're in the right place.
I'm Dara Koenig, a Christian leadership coach, author, and speaker. Even though I am successful in many areas I know what it's like to wrestle with insecurities, to feel lost, and to question my ability to lead. Yet, through a profound understanding of my identity in Christ, I discovered a strength and calling I never thought possible. Now, my mission is to help women like you do the same. Together, we'll unlock the powerful leader within, guided by unwavering faith, and focused on leaving a lasting impact on the world.
The 3 I's of Leadership Framework
Identity
The Foundation of Leadership
As a Christian woman, your identity as a beloved daughter of God is the foundation for everything you do – including how you lead. When you know who you are in Christ, you gain the confidence and clarity you need to step into your calling.
Overcome Self-Doubt: Let's replace the voice of insecurity with the truth of who God says you are - capable, gifted, and worthy.
Discover Your Purpose: Your identity holds the key to unlocking the unique way God wants you to lead and make a difference in this world.
After spending years battling the lie that I wasn't good enough, God transformed my life. When I was filled with His truth about who He created me to be, I finally developed unshakable confidence. My identity was no longer tied to shifting feelings or the words of others, but anchored in the promises of God's Word. That's the kind of confidence I'm here to help you discover.
Integrity
Live Your Values, Inspire Others
As a Christian leader, your integrity is essential. When you live in alignment with your faith, your actions and words become a powerful beacon, inspiring others to follow.
Ethical Decision-Making: Navigating challenging situations can be daunting. Let's develop a framework for making God-honoring choices that align with your values. We'll cover practical strategies and Biblical principles to guide you on your leadership journey.
Influence Through Action: Leadership isn't just about what you say, but how you live. Discover how your actions can inspire, motivate, and earn the trust of those you lead. Together, we'll identify steps to ensure your behavior reflects your faith and has a positive impact on the world.
Integrity is the bridge between identity in Christ and the influence you desire. Once you know who you are, doing the right thing comes naturally. This builds trust – when others see your values in action, they're open to being influenced for good.
Influence
Make a Kingdom Impact
As a Christian woman leader, your influence extends far beyond titles or positions. It's woven into the fabric of your relationships and interactions, shaping the world around you.
Everyday Influence: We all have a sphere of influence, impacting those closest to us – our families, friends, and colleagues. Discover how your daily choices, words of encouragement, and Christ-like actions can inspire others and create a ripple effect of positivity.
Leadership Amplification: Whether you lead a team at work, a small group at church, or simply head your household, your influence takes center stage. We'll equip you with practical tools and strategies to leverage your leadership for good, fostering a spirit of collaboration, service, and excellence.
The question isn't whether you have influence, but how you'll choose to use it. Schedule your free Discovery Call today and let's explore how to turn your influence into a powerful force for God's Kingdom!
Accelerate Your Leadership Journey:
Expert Coaching, Inspiring Speaking, Faith-Based Transformation
With over two decades of experience empowering women, I offer more than just coaching. My approach blends practical leadership strategies with the life-changing power of the 3 I's Framework (Identity, Integrity, Influence). Whether it's through one-on-one coaching, inspiring keynote addresses, conferences like Equipping Ambassadors, or the transformative Fill(ed) devotional series, I'm committed to equipping you with the tools and inspiration to unlock your full potential. Together, we'll craft a personalized plan to help you overcome obstacles, amplify your influence, and leave a lasting legacy as a Christian woman leader.
Your Path to Purposeful Leadership Starts Here
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Let's discuss your leadership aspirations, identify areas where you lack confidence, and create a clear roadmap guided by your faith. Whether you're seeking guidance on specific leadership scenarios, or want to deepen your understanding of how faith applies to your work, this call is your starting point.
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Thanks for Being Human
A Leadership Lesson in Grace and Growth
After delivering the Email Essentials training for UCDD/UCHRA, I came home physically tired; but mentally energized. You know that feeling when your body wants rest, but your mind still wants to squeeze in one more thing?
I thought I could be efficient and knock out a quick task while making dinner: schedule the post-training survey email.
Fast forward to the next morning. I’m wrapping up my first cup of coffee when my phone dings.
The survey is closed.
My heart drops. I immediately realize I never updated the link in my template to the new survey for yesterday’s trainings. Okay, annoying, but fixable.
As I go to correct it, I notice something worse. I didn’t even finish creating the survey. I had copied the template, changed the date, but never completed the process.
So I finish the survey and resend the email to all 50+ training attendees.
Ding.
Another email.
Yesterday’s trainings aren’t listed on the survey.
Now my mind is racing. How is that possible? I used my template, except I didn’t use the most recent template. And of course, the missing trainings are the ones from yesterday.
At this point, I pause. Do I rebuild the survey from scratch? That could take nearly an hour. Meanwhile, how many people are clicking the link and seeing the wrong survey?
I decide to make a copy of the correct template, delete the incomplete one, and resend the email.
Third time.
Ding. Ding.
Emails start coming in.
And then I realize it.
I forgot to put the link in the email.
I am officially upset and frustrated with myself. How did I mess up such a simple task three times in a row?
So I send one more email to all the attendees, this time with the link, and add this message:
“This is so embarrassing. I do not know why this is happening today, but here is the link.
Now I’m going to go hide from complete embarrassment and finish that pot of coffee before I do anything else.”
I did step away from the computer, but instead of more coffee, I stepped onto my yoga mat. I took 20 minutes to calm my body and refocus my mind, instead of amping up my nervous system with more caffeine.
When I returned to my inbox, I found an email from an attendee that simply said:
“Thanks for being human.”
Those four words gave me permission to stop beating myself up.
And that’s what I want to encourage you with today.
Thank you for being human.
We will all make mistakes. Sometimes they aren’t very public, like missing your highway exit. Other times, they feel much bigger, like a bad decision or investment that takes time to recover from. And sometimes, yes, it looks like sending four emails to over 50 people just to get it right.
Mistakes are part of being human.
There was only one perfect man. The rest of us are doing the best we can with the life we’ve been given.
So don’t beat yourself up when you make a mistake. Learn from it. Move forward. And one day, look back and smile at how much you’ve grown, or even laugh at how small it really was in the grand scheme of things.
Leadership isn’t about being perfect.
It’s about learning, growing, and doing better next time.
And the great part? I now have another personal story to share in my next email training, about the importance of slowing down, pausing, and rechecking what you’re about to send.
What would change if you gave yourself the same grace today that you so easily extend to others?
If reflections like this resonate with you, I share a short weekly note called Better Than Yesterday—a gentle pause to reflect on leadership, growth, and becoming just a little better than the day before.
Client Testimonials
“My relationship with God has been one of trust and intensely personal. At one time, I talked daily, if not hourly with Him in prayer. Life and people got in the way of this relationship. Due to some extremely hurtful actions done towards me at a church, my life fell apart. I always believed in God but the daily communications had gone by the wayside as the hurt continued to echo in my life. Dara has taught me that it’s okay to hurt, but it’s not okay to keep going in the direction I was going. She re-awakened my desire to spend time with God each and every day and to re-establish the relationship I once had. She also encouraged me to include my husband in prayer and in a bible study, which we had not done for years. Her guidance has been essential to help me re-establish what I had lost. God worked behind the scenes by bringing Dara as my coach. Dara has gently guided me to move one step at a time forward in my life. I am still a work in progress but without Dara, I would be holding God at arms distance.“
“I am so excited about painting this new picture of my life, working in my inner self, and becoming the best version of me.
Dara has been a huge support in this amazing way, her empathy, kindness, and patience along with her strong knowledge and dedication, made this journey an amazing experience.”
“My coach not only listens to everything I say she digs into the WHY behind what I am feeling and equips me with the tools to make changes. She doesn’t tell me what to do she empowers me! I am now hopeful and excited about my future. Having Dara as my Coach has been such an amazing experience.”